Work Space Separation: Defining Space in the Home Office You Share

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March 09, 2021

If your significant other hogs the blankets in bed, to some extent you know what you might be up against when you work together and share home office space. Sharing a business and working space with family, whether that's with your significant other, your brother, sister, or even your beloved parent(s), being deliberate with your space design, schedule, and use of said space is critical to ensuring happiness before, during and after work hours.


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When couples choose to go into business together or operate co-aligned businesses, it is important to define workspaces. Especially if the two of you are working from a shared home office. Developing two spaces can be a huge challenge. Not only do you need enough physical space, but it also has to be workable. Sharing a desk works briefly if one or both of you are spending a portion of your time on the road. The day will come, however, when you are both home and need the surface area and personal space to tackle the tasks at hand. Consider designing two desks and either allot enough space for shared storage or create two small workable storage units. Each will have their own designated workspaces without losing focus of their love and consideration of the other.

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Not My Style

Regardless of how much you love each other, your “other half” isn't your identical twin. You most likely have different styles whether they are neat or cluttered, streamlined and organized, or a little more personalized. A home office does not need to be "matchy-matchy". Make it work for each of your own specific needs and personalities. Where design and workflow styles collide, collaborate; but be respectful of each other's individual patterns, processes, and allow for the room the other needs to manage their business their way.

Pro Tip: Check out this helpful article on defining and documenting your workflow– so others on your team can dive in and help keep the planning process moving forward in your absence (hello, early maternity leave/3-week vacation/unexpected emergencies).


Workspace is more than square footage and desk design. Be respectful of your partner and consider the entire working environment including light and sound. If necessary, go to another part of the house, or out into the yard to take a business call. If you're more productive working to music but your partner enjoys silence, invest in a set of headphones. The same applies if your job involves listening to tutorials, podcasts, wedding videos or music that only applies to your business. Likewise, for things you find yourselves aligning on, celebrate them. Share in the responsibility of making sure they're always present. Keep a good inventory of the household's favorite diffuser oil or a scented candle. Make a schedule to water those plants you bought to breathe some life into your workspace.

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Calling It Quits

Knowing when it's time to move the business out of your house is immensely important. As the business grows, your team grows. If you do not have a large enough space like a finished basement or converted garage that can accommodate everything, know when to start looking for something else. Working from home together feeling like you don't have your space is eventually going to bleed over into your personal life. You pour your heart into your business but home is where yours eventually comes back to every day to be with the ones you love. As just you. Set your space limits accordingly.


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Aisle Planner Editorial Team
Aisle Planner Editorial Team
The Aisle Planner Editorial Team is a collective of creative writers, editors, and former event pros who obsess over weddings and special events—and the businesses behind them! Drawn to refined details, design, and creativity, our team provides intelligent and straightforward articles with insights, practical tips, and expert guidance in putting Aisle Planner's "Power of One" behind your business.